When Belief Unfolds!!

A person steps into our life, and suddenly, it's as if the world transforms into a brighter place. We begin dreaming about all the possibilities that this human existence has to offer, and for some, like me, we even dare to dream beyond. This person breathes life into what might have felt like a stagnant existence, infusing it with enthusiasm. We start thinking beyond our time, letting our imaginations run wild.

"Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else."

-500 days of summer

Our once-barren lives become a lush landscape of wonder, and this person seems to grasp the essence of our being like no other. We firmly believe in the concept of the right person arriving at the right time, and with all our hearts, we believe this is it.

But then, almost in the blink of an eye, everything begins to change. It's as if no effort is coming from the other side, and we find ourselves struggling to keep it all together. Remember, we hold onto the belief in the right person at the right time. Nevertheless, self-doubt creeps in, and we find ourselves analyzing every shared memory, wondering if we made a mistake. But why does it always have to be our mistake? Why don't we question the other person? It's because we hold onto that belief in the right person at the right time.

In my view, I don't entirely embrace the notion of the right person at the wrong time. If someone is truly right for you, they have the power to make everything right, regardless of the circumstances. Ultimately, it depends on that person. In my life, I have cherished relationships with people I don't interact with every day because we're all occupied with the process of constructing our lives. Yet, when we do come together, it's an explosion of happiness. These friends never let the connection fade. For instance, I embark on treks once a month, not knowing who I'll meet, and thus far, it's been a phenomenal experience. I've built bonds with these individuals and stayed in touch.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder." How does it make you feel? You attempt to resolve all their issues, make yourself available at any time, and aim to bring joy into their lives. It's a one-sided effort. Do they only reach out when they're in need or pain? Are you their second choice? It's a question you should pose to yourself. Is it worthwhile to endure pain in your attempt to make someone happy if they don't genuinely appreciate you? Suffering now could potentially jeopardize your future with the right person who truly values you. Trust me, you don't want to end up as the wrong person at the right time.

Losing yourself is not an option. It leads to loneliness, a perilous path to tread. You might be surrounded by family and loved ones, yet still, you feel a sense of isolation and an inability to connect. When reality hits you hard, you begin to withdraw from everyone, transforming into the wrong person at the wrong time. But sometimes, you have to let go. If something is meant for you, it will find its way back.

The truth is, nothing in life is perfect; that's the reality. Take a deep breath and let go. Your future self will thank you for it.