If someone asks me what is efforts? I don't think I will be able to answer. I don't know what is efforts. but I will try to find out what efforts are. because I also want to know it. A person can try to make an effort for anyone for family, or friends. for the loved one. As a human, we can make efforts for anyone or anything. Efforts are something that can't be seen. it will just make an impact in your life or someone's life. Efforts are something no one can define. believe me, tried it. But where you lend your efforts. there are many eras where you put your efforts. Sometimes you know you are giving your effort for a specific thing. that might need your time, energy, and everything you got...
Efforts, How can you define it? A mother who cares for her child from 1st month till that child became an adult and even after that, she did not stop loving the child, she will cry for her child, she will sacrifice for her child, and she will do anything. No matter what. Or a father who didn't get to spend much time with his child. He wanted to, but he had to feed his family. He sacrifice every day everything, that he had to for the sake of his Children and family. He tries to take care of everything, without saying it, without showing it. He just takes care of everything just like a silent ocean. These efforts didn't require anything in return, they are just pure efforts, filled with emotions and sacrifice.
A person can be trying hard to make happy a person he/she loves ❤️ the most. Even if we don't know the result. Those efforts can't be seen and people around you will criticize you for not making enough effort. Like "You didn't work hard enough for it and all". Or sometimes the worst thing is, the efforts we are making for the person we love, the time we are giving for it, everything we are giving, can't be seen by the person, we are doing it for. Or they felt we didn't give enough effort. But you know, you gave your 100% for it. It just was "The right effort, The wrong person".
Effort? Efforts can be trying to live a better life. A Life you weren't able to live in past, but now you are making, not for you. those are for your whole family, the people you love. to provide them with what you didn't. You are just trying to make sure they didn't feel the same you felt when you had nothing in your hand. Being able to provide your shoulder to everyone in need, because you had no one like this, you decide to become one. Trying to make a better situation at your home and believe me, the effort for your family always works. Hang in there. Every individual has their efforts, they can't tell or describe them to anyone except themselves, because you are the one who is making that effort. and no one has the right to criticize it. or judge it.
Every human put their efforts to make things work in their life. If you see there are efforts everywhere, you have to put the effort into everything you dream of or do you want to work in your life. thereis no reward without any effort and struggle in life.
But remember again, No one has the right to judge or say anything about
your efforts. Because you knew how much you gave, you gave 100% of
your effort. Whatever people will come and will say you didn't put much
the effort, that is why you didn't go it. If things worked up people will say you put your 100 % effort. when this kind of situation comes, what is our job? Just smile and ignore theirpresence, If you do this believe me
you will be happier. So keep it up.
Let me ask you one last question what are your efforts?